40 would you rather questions for couples (fun, deep and a little spicy)

Fun would you rather questions

1. Would you rather have a beach holiday or a city break?
2. Would you rather cook dinner together or order in and watch a film?
3. Would you rather go to a concert or a comedy show?
4. Would you rather have breakfast in bed or brunch out?
5. Would you rather have a dog or a cat together?
6. Would you rather sing karaoke or dance all night?
7. Would you rather have a picnic in the park or dinner at a fancy restaurant?
8. Would you rather go camping or stay in a hotel?
9. Would you rather always have to whisper or always have to shout?
10. Would you rather know every language or be able to play every instrument?

Would you rather questions about the future

1. Would you rather live in the city or the countryside?
2. Would you rather have a big wedding or a small one?
3. Would you rather travel the world for a year or buy a home sooner?
4. Would you rather live near your family or somewhere new?
5. Would you rather retire early or keep working at something you love?
6. Would you rather have a house by the sea or a flat in the city centre?
7. Would you rather plan everything or decide as you go?
8. Would you rather save for something big or spend on experiences now?
9. Would you rather move abroad together or stay close to home?
10. Would you rather have a big group of friends or a few close ones?

Deeper would you rather questions

1. Would you rather talk through a disagreement straight away or sleep on it?
2. Would you rather hear a hard truth or a kind white lie?
3. Would you rather have more time together or more time to yourself?
4. Would you rather be surprised or know what is coming?
5. Would you rather receive a thoughtful letter or a thoughtful gift?
6. Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead ten years?
7. Would you rather say "I love you" first or hear it first?
8. Would you rather know what your partner is thinking or how they are feeling?
9. Would you rather have a partner who makes you laugh or one who makes you think?
10. Would you rather fix a problem together or have space to fix it alone?

A little spicy

Mild enough to play over dinner; keep it to what you are both comfortable with.

1. Would you rather kiss in the rain or by candlelight?
2. Would you rather get a love note or a flirty text during the day?
3. Would you rather slow dance in the kitchen or at a party?
4. Would you rather plan a surprise date or be surprised?
5. Would you rather hold hands in public or keep it for when you are alone?
6. Would you rather have a weekend away with no phones or a night out with friends?
7. Would you rather be complimented on your looks or on your mind?
8. Would you rather recreate your first kiss or have a completely new first?
9. Would you rather have a long massage or a long bath together?
10. Would you rather stay up all night talking or fall asleep early together?

How to play

• Take turns asking. Both answer before anyone explains.
• If you pick differently, each gets one sentence on why. No debating.
• Note the ones you both picked: they make good plans for your next date.

Want questions that keep your answers private?

In Flinkos Duo, you each answer on your own phone, and you only see the questions you both answered the same way. Matches go on a shared to-do list. More ideas: 39 questions for couples.